Kulwinder Kaur, 38, of Pathan Nangal village in Amritsar district of Punjab, talks about her life after losing her husband – in her own words.
I was married at a very young age. And you’ll never be able to guess why.
A Mazhabi Sikh – a Dalit like us – and an upper caste Jat girl grew close. The upper caste people didn’t take it well.
The boy was my brother’s close friend. So my parents were afraid that the villagers may drag me into it.
I must have been in Class VII. I was pulled out of school and was married off. I had not even started menstruating.
My husband was a truck driver. He was a nice man. He often used to help me with the household chores since it was all new for me then.
I had my first child when I was 17. She was born premature and we lost her. I had two girls and a boy in quick succession.